IN the drawing room of a country house near Portsmouth a petite French woman is dwarfed by a 14ft-high map.
Madame Arlette Gondree, 84, is studying a top-secret chart that was used during World War Two to plan Britain’s D-Day landings on France’s Normandy beaches.
She points to a spot near the town of Ouistreham.
The tiny village of Benouville is so small it is not even named on the map at Southwick House — nerve centre of the invasion to drive the Nazis out of France 80 years ago.
But it is where Arlette’s family ran a cafe and helped the French Resistance and British spies, like something from BBC sitcom ’Allo ’Allo but without all the laughs.
The village was the first place liberated by British troops sent to defend a strategically vital canal crossing nearby — to be forever known as Pegasus Bridge.
Mum-of-three Arlette married Brit Theodore Pritchett, son of the former Lord Mayor of Birmingham, and splits her time between the UK and running the family’s Cafe Gondree in France with son Giles, 60, and 24-year-old granddaughter Alisse.
Best champagne
And in early June, she will be there to welcome a party of British veterans to thank them on this 80th anniversary for having saved her country.
In particular, she hopes commemorations this summer to mark the anniversary will finally convince the French that Britain, and not just America, liberated their country.
She says: “For some reason, French people still think the Americans won the war. Maybe it is the way they teach children at school.
“But more than 22,000 young British men lost their lives and many more were wounded in 1944 freeing my country from the Nazis. We must never forget them.”
She is delighted King Charles will lead commemorations on June 6 at the new British Normandy Memorial overlooking Gold beach.
On the map at Southwick House, the famous Gold, Sword and Juno beaches, where British troops came ashore at 7.24am on June 6, 1944, are all plainly marked.
These beaches where thousands of British troops were killed as they clambered ashore were each given fish-inspired code names by the Allied.
Juno was originally Jellyfish but British Prime Minister Winston Churchill changed the name “because no man should die on a beach named Jelly”.
D-Day is always commemorated on June 6 but for Madame Gondree the invasion began at 11.16pm the night before.
That was the moment her parents’ cafe was liberated by British paratroopers.
Within an hour of the first British troops arriving in gliders that landed in fields around Benouville, Arlette’s beaming cafe-owner dad Georges was serving them champagne.
When the Nazis invaded France four years earlier in 1940 he had hidden his best bottles under the cafe’s vegetable patch.
While firefights were going on around the cafe during the first skirmishes of D-Day, Georges dug up his bottles of bubbly and popped the corks in honour of the hero Brits.
The occupation was very difficult. We were short of food, we were short of clothes and they had hardly any supplies which they could sell but we were tied together as a family
Arlette Gondree
Arlette is delighted that, at long last, there is now a dedicated British Normandy Memorial, overlooking Gold Beach just outside the village of Ver-sur-Mer.
Some veterans say the memorial, only completed during the recent Covid crisis, is “too little, too late”.
But Arlette says: “It is never too late”. Time has takent its toll, though, and it is believed that only around 40 British World War Two veterans will be fit and well enough to travel to Normandy this summer.
Although she was just four years old on D-Day, Arlette can remember every detail of the day she, her sister Georgette, ten, her father and her mother, Therese, were saved.
It was thanks for the family’s work for the Allies during the war, when vital information from Café Gondree found its way to Southwick House where it was used by British admiral Bertram Ramsey to plan the world’s biggest ever invasion from the sea.
Arlette says: “For my parents, the occupation was very difficult. We were short of food, we were short of clothes and they had hardly any supplies which they could sell but we were tied together as a family.
My parents were passing on information through my father, who spoke English well — but the Germans never knew.
First-aid post
“My mother was serving in the cafe and could hear what the Germans were saying because we couldn’t stop them coming there to drink.
“Little did they know that Mummy knew what they were doing in the village, on the bridges, and what they were likely to do.”
But Therese was once interrogated. Arlette says: “Fortunately, she was released and unharmed but she was very traumatised.”
Then there was a time when she stood up to a German soldier for being rude.
Arlette says: “He got hold of her by the throat, and fortunately Daddy arrived and separated them.”
Meanwhile, Georges was putting his life on the line, too.
Arlette says: “Daddy would welcome British spies. He was also meeting Eugene Mesnin, who was the chief engineer responsible for bridges along the canal, and Lea Vion, who was in charge of the maternity hospital — they were the Resistance people.”
On the eve of D-Day, Georges was tipped off by British spies not to move out of the cafe.
So he and Therese took their daughters to the cellar below the bar where the children bedded down behind two large empty cider barrels.
Arlette remembers: “It wasn’t long after that when we were shaken by a tremendous crash, which was horrific.
“Then we heard noises around the cafe so Daddy went upstairs to see what he could see.
“The shutters were being forced open and the window panes broken above our heads. We thought the Germans were coming in to get us.
“Daddy brought down two figures we had not seen before, covered in black with nets.
“One of them grabbed me, took me in his arms, and I was very frightened.
I will go on serving champagne to the men who saved our country, until the last one is left
Arlette Gondree
“But Mummy started kissing them and they gave me something I hadn’t had for a long time — chocolate and biscuits. One of them took me in his arms.
“Because we were under German time, it was the last hour of the 5th of June.
“That’s why we celebrate with my beloved veterans, whether they be older or youngsters of today, at that very special time of 23.16, with some champagne.
“In 1944, within the hour, my father had unearthed bottles from the garden and brought them to the British soldiers, who were digging trenches, to say thank you.
“By then there were casualties, so the cafe was transformed into a first-aid post. The wounded were lying everywhere.
“The dining room became the operating theatre and Mummy, who was a trained nurse, helped the doctor in charge.
“It was a horrific sight, very frightening — the noise, the cries and the smell . . . ”
“The veterans have always regarded Cafe Gondree as a shrine and a home to them. I will go on serving champagne to the men who saved our country, until the last one is left.”